In her compelling memoir Learning to Breathe, Priscilla Warner shares a deeply transformative insight: the acronym
SIGH – Sitting in God’s Hands.
This phrase, simple yet profound, offers a spiritual anchor in times of turmoil and emotional overwhelm. It serves not just as a metaphor for surrender and trust, but as a gateway into the physiological and psychological power of the breath.
When we sigh, either spontaneously or deliberately, we engage a process that bridges body, mind, and spirit. In this blog post, we explore the power of the sigh—not just as a spiritual release, but as a biological reset, a mental pause, and an emotional anchor.
The Effect of a Sigh on the Body and Mind
The Physical Body
A sigh is not just a dramatic exhale; it’s a physiological mechanism with important biological functions. Research from Stanford University (2023) has shown that sighs help to reinflate alveoli (tiny air sacs in the lungs that can collapse over time), thus keeping the lungs functioning properly. When we sigh, we take in a deep breath, followed by an extended exhale, which resets our respiratory system.
Sighing also triggers the parasympathetic nervous system (our body’s “rest and digest” mode) slowing the heart rate, lowering blood pressure, and releasing muscle tension. In moments of stress, this kind of physical reset is invaluable.
The Mind and Emotions
Sighs can also act as emotional punctuation marks. We sigh when we’re tired, stressed, frustrated, or relieved. It’s a nonverbal expression of what’s happening internally. Emotionally, sighing can be a form of surrender – a moment where we release the mental weight we’re carrying, even if just for a second.
Repeated, conscious sighing can ease anxiety and calm a restless mind. It also serves as a physical cue to the brain that we’re safe, which helps reduce rumination and restore emotional balance.
Read the article here Stanford University – ‘Cyclic sighing’ can help breathe away anxiety
or watch the short video below
The Fight-or-Flight Response and Its Impact
Our nervous systems are equipped with a brilliant evolutionary tool – the fight-or-flight response. It readies us for danger by increasing adrenaline, accelerating heart rate, and sharpening focus. But in our modern lives, this system is often over-activated, even when we’re not in real danger.
Impact on Higher Functional Thinking
When in fight-or-flight, the body diverts blood flow away from the prefrontal cortex (the part of the brain responsible for reasoning, planning, and decision-making) and sends it toward survival-based functions like muscle reactivity and vision acuity. This shift impairs our ability to think critically, solve problems, or even connect with others empathically.
Sticking to Healthy Lifestyle Habits
Chronic stress disrupts sleep, digestion, and emotional regulation – all essential components for maintaining healthy habits. A person in a prolonged state of fight-or-flight will likely resort to quick fixes: overeating, avoiding exercise, or seeking comfort through unhealthy behaviors etc.
Maintaining a Healthy Physical Body
Long-term activation of the fight-or-flight system can result in chronic inflammation, hypertension, and hormonal imbalances. It keeps the body in a catabolic state (breaking down tissues rather than repairing them). This directly undermines physical well-being and accelerates aging.
The antidote? Practices that bring us back into the parasympathetic state. Chief among them: breathwork.
Why Focusing on the Breath Is Central to Mindfulness
Breath is the bridge between the conscious and unconscious. It happens automatically, yet we can control it consciously. This makes breath a powerful access point for regulating the nervous system and cultivating awareness.
Mindfulness and meditation traditions across cultures use breath as a foundational practice for one key reason: it brings us back to the present moment. Here’s how:
- Attention Anchor: Focusing on breath helps quiet the mind’s chatter and reduces distraction.
- Emotional Regulation: Deep, intentional breathing reduces anxiety and helps us respond rather than react.
- Spiritual Centering: Breath connects us to something greater – whether we call it God, spirit, or the universe. In that pause between inhale and exhale lies infinite stillness.
A deep sigh is both a spiritual and biological intervention. It says, I let go. I trust. I’m held.
People Who Attribute Success to Calm and Groundedness
Arianna Huffington
After collapsing from burnout, Huffington restructured her life around mindfulness and sleep hygiene. She founded Thrive Global, promoting calm, well-being, and sustainable success.
Arianna Huffington: How to thrive during adversity – Going.io
LeBron James
One of the most successful athletes of all time, James uses meditation and breathwork to manage stress and optimize performance. His ability to stay calm under pressure has been a key to his long-term success.
Why LeBron James Meditates in Game Four Key Benefits for Athletes
Concluding Remarks
The acronym SIGH—Sitting in God’s Hands—offers us a powerful reminder: surrender is not defeat; it’s an opening. An opening to reconnect with the breath, to regulate our nervous system, to release emotional burdens, and to align with something greater than ourselves.
Let’s reflect on the takeaways:
- A sigh isn’t just a breath; it’s a reset. It relaxes the body, calms the mind, and helps us return to balance.
- Our nervous system plays a pivotal role in how we think, feel, and act. Prolonged stress limits our potential.
- The breath is a sacred and practical tool. It anchors us in the now and empowers mindful living.
- Calm is not a luxury – it’s a strategy. Those who learn to pause and breathe through difficulty often lead with greater clarity, resilience, and success.
Next time you feel overwhelmed, take a long, deep breath. Sigh. Let go. Repeat.
